Watch Your Circle
I'm just going to get straight to it........check your circle!! Too often we surround ourselves with people who have negative intentions. We allow ourselves to get too comfortable with the wrong people, for the wrong reasons and too many seasons. Some of us are afraid to be alone in this cruel world, and others look for validation from others. Our circle is suppose to be full of love, trust and support. Most people have a circle simply full of negativity and competition.
I always say that every individual who comes into your life was sent for a reason. We have to start understanding that everything happens for a reason, though we don't always know what that reason may be. We often get lifetime and seasonal people mixed up, which causes us to go through a lot of problems that could have been avoided from the beginning. Don't allow your insecurities to make feel like you have to have someone around just to be there taking up space in your life. Remember that even when you're alone, you're not really alone.
Your circle is suppose to full of so many positive vibes that even you can't deny the energy. Your friends are not suppose to tell your secrets, and judge you behind your back. You're suppose to learn from one another, which helps the bond to grow stronger. Jealousy should never exist within your inner circle, not even from you. No matter what the other is going through support should always remain stable and constant. The moment you find yourself inviting seasonal people into your circle, should be the moment you start rearranging the people in your life, and putting them into the place they belong. With every individual you come across figure out what you're suppose to get from that person, and what you're suppose to give in return. This does not always have to deal with money.
Just know that every individual person you meet is NOT meant to be in your circle. I've met some extremely nice people here at WSSU, but I know that their NOT meant for my inner circle. I've had people to come into my life, and leave their footprint in the sand as I travel on my journey, this is due to the lessons that they've taught me during the short time we were acquaintances. Remember to give as much love as you want to receive in your circle. Create positive vibes that all of you can feed off of.
Don't be afraid to support each other, and stand by those who are willing to stand by you. WE need each other in life, especially when times get hard. Don't allow just anyone to come into your circle, and remember that just because someone is nice doesn't mean their your friend. If you constantly have to question a person loyalty to you, then their probably not your friend, so MOVE ON with no apologies.
CHECK YOUR CIRCLE!!
LIFT EACH OTHER UP!!
Jas
