I Don't Have To Explain Myself

I find it funny that society teaches us to do one thing, but will quickly despise you for actually taking in the advice given and applying it. They teach us to be who we want to be, but if that person we choose to be goes against societies belief, then backlash will arise. We live in a nation that has based a lot of its morals and values on image. Before we take action or before we speak; we usually wonder about the perception others will have of us if we do as we genuinely want to at the moment. Though we may not admit it to those around us, we've found ourselves with this brisk thought at some point. Who wants to be embarrassed? None of us! Which is why we don't always do what makes us happy as individuals. We're wired from birth to be whoever it is society wants us to be without questioning the everyday programming.

The most powerful thing one can do is decide who it is they want to be, and be it without justifying why their being themselves. Options are the best part about life, we can wake up each day and decide what it is we want to do and how we want to do it. God granted each of us free will, which gives us permission to do whatever it is we choose. This grant also pertains to choosing who it is you want to be. Though many of us may not view this grant as a blessing; it's a blessing that allows you to never be closed in a box, which will drive anyone crazy, it's called complete freedom.

I choose, you choose, we choose to be everything we choose to be. Let's get something straight about personal identification (being you), it's the thing that shouts this is who I am. What makes you standout from the rest of the crowd? What do you believe? These are some of the things you could ask yourself to get to know yourself a little better. Go out and do things that you've never done before or do something you haven't done in awhile. This builds on who you are because the things that interest you says a lot about you. Do this as much as possible and create yourself daily.

Once you've decided that this is who you are, then act on it without given an explanation to anyone. Are you comfortable? If yes, then your doing exactly what it is you're suppose to be doing, but hopefully you're doing it with undeniable confidence. Be one of the rare ones in the world to set trends for others to follow. Be the innovator with creative ideas that others can use to take their career to the next level. Start loving yourself enough to know that it's okay to see the world differently from others. It's okay to want to go places that your friends don't care to be. You can like what you like without feeling like an outcast because you'll find wholeness in following your hearts desire. Some may actually be confused by your identification choice, but that matters very little because your doing it the right way.....your way.

Jas